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Safety

Stay safe, stay open, and stay yourself — that’s the best way to enjoy online dating.

Stay Safe, Stay Supported

Our detection tools and moderation team protect you. Keep your chats within the site.

Video Isn’t Bulletproof

Deepfakes are strong. Pair video chats with fact-checking before you meet.

Keep What’s Personal Offline

Sharing intimate photos online can lead to sextortion. Don’t take the risk.

Pick a Safe First Date Location

Always meet where others are nearby — like a coffee shop or museum — not at someone’s home.

Let a Trusted Person Know

Tell a friend, family member, or housemate where you’ll be and who you’re with.

Bring a Fully Powered Phone

Before heading out, charge your phone and ensure it has enough credit to call.

Use Public or Personal Transport

It’s safer to travel on your own terms rather than accepting a pickup.

Keep Your Wits

Moderate your drinking so you can assess red flags quickly.

Keep It in Public Spaces

First dates should start and end in places with people around.

Enjoy, Don’t Stress

Be yourself, stay safe, and let the fun happen naturally.